Teach your dog to engage with you.
- Merran Spath
- Aug 14
- 3 min read
Updated: Oct 24

What Engagement Looks Like
Your dog watches you. They want to see what happens next. They pick you over distractions. They come when called because hanging out with you beats everything else.
This isn't magic. It's training.
Why This Changes Everything;
Dogs pay attention to:
Movement
Sound
Rewards
Make yourself the best source of these. and your dog will choose you.
Method 1: The Food Game
Step 1: Start Simple Hold a treat. Move away from your dog. Let them follow and mouth the treat. Drop it. Walk away again.
Do this for 5 minutes.
Step 2: Make It Exciting Hold the treat. Move away. Throw it and say "Get it!" Your dog will start watching you to see what happens next.
Mix up your timing. Sometimes reward on the ground sometimes throw it. Keep them guessing.
Step 3: Remove the visible treat. Open your hand flat. No treat showing. Move around. When they follow reward from your pocket.
Now your dog follows you, not the treat. Big difference.
Step 4: Add Distractions Start in your living room. Add a family member walking by. Then practice in your backyard. Build up the distractions.
Your dog learns you're more interesting than everything else.
Step 5: Take it on a walk. Stop on the verge and have a game, build up until they can focus on you when other dogs are around.
If you loose their attention make it easier with fewer distractions and build up again.
Method 2: The Play Game
Step 1: Find Their Favorite. Put out a few different toys. Let your dog pick. Watch what they do with their choice.
Step 2: Bring the Toy to Life Bounce it on the ground. Wiggle it. Hide it behind your back. When your dog moves toward it, let them grab it. Tug it, then let them have it.
Step 3: Use Movement Call them. Take a step back. Move side to side. Movement is motivating.
Keep your body relaxed. Don't lean forward as if reaching for the toy. Let them come to you.
Step 4: Perfect Your Timing Pat your chest when you want them closer. The moment they look at you, say "Yes!" and grab the toy. Pull it straight back.
No side-to-side tugging. That hurts necks.
Step 5: Give It Back Tug for 3 seconds. Let go. Walk away. They'll follow you to restart the game.
Keep giving the toy back. You want them bringing toys to you, not hiding them.
Step 6: Add Distractions Same progression as the food game. Living room first. Then backyard. Build up challenges.
Step 7: Teach "Drop It" Stop moving the toy. Hold it dead still. Wait. Your dog will let go eventually. The instant they do, give it back and restart the game.
Add the word "Out" once they drop it fast. Keep practicing until the word works alone.
Use It Everywhere
Before Training: Get their attention first. Then ask for sits, hand targets, or tricks.
On Walks: When they fixate on something, call for focus. Redirect before continuing.
With Visitors: Play the engagement game instead of letting them jump on guests.
Problem Prevention: Engaged dogs don't get into trouble. They're too busy watching you.
What You Get
Dogs with solid engagement:
Learn faster
Listen better
Stay calmer in busy places
Pay attention to you
Final Note
You're not just getting attention. You're becoming interesting to your dog.
Start today. Pick one method. Practice 5 minutes regularly. Your dog will start choosing you over everything else.

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